Being a military spouse can be both rewarding and challenging. It’s a unique lifestyle that requires adaptability, resilience, and a strong support system. If you are new to the military community, there are a few things you should know to make the transition a little easier. Here are 10 things every new Army Wife needs to know.

  1. Know your soldier’s chain of command. It’s important to know who to contact if you have questions or concerns about your soldier’s well-being, deployment, or anything else military-related.
  2. Familiarize yourself with military terminology and acronyms. You’ll be hearing a lot of terms like “PCS,” “TDY,” and “FRG,” and it’s important to know what they mean.
  3. Get involved with the military community. There are many resources available to military spouses, including support groups, spouse clubs, and online communities. Joining these groups can provide you with a sense of belonging and support during difficult times.
  4. Understand the military lifestyle. Military life can be unpredictable and often involves frequent moves, deployments, and long periods of separation. It’s important to be prepared for these challenges and to have a support system in place to help you through them.
  5. Learn about military benefits. As a military spouse, you are entitled to certain benefits, such as healthcare, education, and financial assistance. It’s important to familiarize yourself with these benefits and to know how to access them.
  6. Take care of yourself. Military life can be stressful, and it’s important to prioritize your own well-being. Make time for self-care and seek out support when you need it.
  7. Learn about deployment. If your soldier is deployed, it’s important to know what to expect and how to communicate with them while they are away.
  8. Understand the importance of communication. Good communication is key in any relationship, but it is especially important in a military relationship where you may be separated for long periods of time.
  9. Know your rights as a military spouse. Military spouses have certain legal protections, such as the right to retain their own last name and the right to receive support during a divorce.
  10. Seek out resources for military families. There are many organizations and resources available to military families, including the Military OneSource ( and the Military Family Association ( These organizations can provide you with information, support, and assistance as you navigate military life.



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Krystel is the mom of two and an Army Wife. In addition to Army Wife 101 she is the Co-Founder of a digital media agency that connects brands with the military market. She has appeared on MSNBC ,FOX LA and formerly was a weekly contributor to HLN's "Raising America". She has written for various outlets including Sheknows and Lifetime and is a big fan of cupcakes and french fries.

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